What makes a woman beautiful? Obviously, there is physcial beauty… smiling eyes; a pretty face; large, soft breasts; a curvaceous body that is receptive to pleasure… but that is not what makes a woman truly beautiful. No, what makes a woman truly beautiful and attractive is what she does with her body, and how open her mind is to appreciating the incredible pleasures it can give her.
This is why the most beautiful image in the world is that of a woman who is naked, on her back, her legs spread wide for a young hard black stud who is filling her fertile body with seed — while the man in her life is by her side, holding her hand, whispering tender words of support and encouragement. The beauty of this image is not just the natural erotic response to seeing a woman so accepting of pleasure, or so accepting of her natural desire to create life. It goes deeper than that, because it is an image of a woman who fully accepts her sexuality as a joyous thing that should not be suppressed in the name of love or fidelity. It is the image of a woman who wants to glory in sexual sharing, and who wants the support of her partner as she seeks, seduces and enjoys a wide variety of other men… and embraces the possibility that pregnancy may result.
By sharing herself with others, a woman demonstrates that she is proud of her sexuality and is eager to embrace the pleasures that it brings. A woman who enjoys pleasure with other men while her partner watches, supports and protects her is engaging in a deeply bonding act of intimacy where she exposes herself physically and emotionally by acknowledging her deepest and most secret desires. By opening herself up totally in this fashion, a woman receives the reward of limitless pleasure. And her partner receives the equal reward of of witnessing her pleasure and satisfaction, secure in the knowledge that his support and presence is what makes her pleasure to be so special and gratifying.
The pleasures of such share are brought to their height when a woman offers her body to other men when she is fertile. Nothing compares to the beauty of seeing a woman offering her body to others when every moan and thrust could be the prelude to the creation of life in her sweet womb. Many women have the instinctive, natural and beautiful urge to give their fertile bodies to other men. That urge should be supported and rewarded at every turn.
Infidelity in a traditional monogamous relationship is a act of deceit that builds walls between men and women. The pleasures of illicit relationships cannot be discussed and relived, much less enjoyed openly. It is impossible to truly enjoy such experiences without guilt or remorse, and the memories of those encounters have to be hidden away and forgotten, or relived only in secret. For the sake of protecting their partner, people slowly build secret compartments in their heart that can never be opened for fear of the penalties that honest disclosure might bring.
A truly loving, open relationship transforms the burdens and guilt of what society views as “unfaithfulness” into a source of shared joy and intimacy. Instead of suppressing their desires, and building secret resentment as a result, men and women openly discuss, enjoy, share and relive the pleasures they have enjoyed with others. Instead of driving them apart, the enjoyment of sexual pleasure with others becomes something that continually brings couples closer together. The ultimate act of openness is when a woman accepts cum from other men into her fertile body. The incredible bond the results when a woman recognizes that she can openly and freely share her fertile body with others with the full support and encouragement of her husband or lover (who will embrace any baby she has as his own) can never be broken.
For this reason, I believe a woman should NEVER suppress her sexuality. If a woman wants to bond with her partner, she must open up to him and freely acknowledge her desire to savor the touch, taste and pleasures of other men (and perhaps women as well). A woman desires these things not because she wants to replace her man, but because she wants to embrace her natural urges to enjoy the physcial and emotional high that results when a new lover, or old friend, fills her womb with his seed. The special bond that results from open sharing is immune to the corrosion caused by acts of infidelity and dishonesty that inevitably result from imperfect human beings trying, and failing, to suppress natural sexual and reproductive desires.
To honor her man, a woman should reveal her desires, and openly fulfill those desires without the slightest guilt, shame or remorse. To honor his woman, a man should support her desires, assist her in the search for deserving lovers, continually support her, and protect her and keep her from harm as she experiences all the pleasure that her body can provide. And in turn, a woman should encourage her man to enjoy the pleasures of his sexuality with others, and always rejoice at the sight of him enjoying pleasure with old friends, or new lovers.
So what makes a woman truly beautiful? The answer is clear: A warm heart, an open mind, a desire for shared sexual exploration, and the confidence to enjoy as much sexual pleasure with as many partners, as her mind, body and soul desire without regard to whether pregnancy may result. THAT’S what makes a woman truly beautiful.