Take her to a cocktail lounge one night, and get called away early. Leave her there, and tell her you’ll be back in 90 minutes. If you see her getting close to a guy, treat her like a queen the next morning. Work angles like this, and I think it will come.

I used to know a cool black security guard at my office building. If I had it to over again, I would get a new girlfriend, and make a big deal about an upcoming date. Then, when I cancel at the last hour, my buddy shows up and tells her that I asked him to stand in. And he would fuck the snot out her. And the next day I would bring flowers and tell her how sorry I am for missing our date. After that, I’d just make sure he was “our” best friend, and give him lots of chancs to make her into what nature wants to her to be.